Written: 2/17/2012
But not about me.
First up, Dan Savage responds to someone who was yelled at for “doing kink wrong,” by not following the old guard rules with his partner. Savage, smartly, takes the side of, do what feels good to you and your partner, and ignore those who try to control you. From what I’ve been reading online, Pittsburgh tends to leave the “old guard” behind and do what they want, which I can appreciate, and it suits the ‘burgh.
And secondly, you probably heard about a couple in Portland who got arrest on Valentine’s day, for suspected kidnapping. They were acting out a kink scene in public (one, it’s not cool to involve those who don’t want to be involved, and two, don’t act this out in public places) and the cops were called when innocent passerby’s thought it was a real kidnapping. Also, they met on craigslist and hadn’t met in person before the scene (way unsafe). A funny story for us though!
All my best,
The King of Spades
