And speaking of, the (straight) media needs to leave Tom Daley alone. We don’t know the details of his relationship with Dustin Lance Black, nor is it our business.
Let’s see what we have today, first up, don’t worry, Drumpf is taking a long weekend. Thank goodness there isn’t a war starting in Western Africa or North Korea is reading nuclear weapons.
Dumpf is already planning slashing large chunks of the government, including essential services for women who are victims of domestic abuse, and the national endowments for the arts and humanities.
And in further horrific news, Drumpf has already shut down the office of AIDS policy. To those saying “we survived Bush/Reagan, we’ll survive this,” I will remind you that we literally are missing a generation of gay men due to the AIDS crisis and Regan’s refusal to even say the word. Check your privilege, not everyone made it.
But let’s look at the positives, here’s a great thank you to Obama:
In other good news, the abortion rate is the lowest it’s been in decades! (expect that to change as Republicans seek to close health clinics, but for now, good news!) A reminder, those of us who are pro-choice don’t want to see more abortions, and with comprehensive sex-ed as well as access to resources at Planned Parenthood, the abortion rate will continue to decline!
Quick update today, first up, in case you missed it, watch President Obama’s farewell address. For a little bit, it made me hopeful for the future, and is a great send off for the work we have to do during the next administration.
Hey look, well don’t actually look, we have a new organ! Or at least, bits that we thought were separate are now considered an organ! Don’t dissect yourself or anyone else to look, please.
New Year resolutions for gay men. One of mine is to volunteer more and another is to be in more queer spaces. To help with that, I’ll be volunteering at Outrageous Bingo again! It’s a great night of fun bingo, huge cash prizes and a drag half time show! It usually sells out, but I hope to see you there sometime this year (January is already sold out, it almost always does, so buy early)! Another resolution: write more, especially this blog!
This week’s Savage Love column included a shout out to the FrontRunners, my running group (just a different chapter), so cool!
This analysis from 538 might not be accurate: we still don’t know much about Supreme Leader Snoke and his involvement, there’s a theory he’s been around since the prequels.
That’s it for now, trying to keep these shorter and easier to handle, with a little more commentary! Have a great one!
It’s the yearly round-up of yearly round-up videos. First up, DJ Earworm:
Google’s year in search, this one will probably make you cry (I did!):
And YouTube’s year in review:
The good things that happened in 2016, from Super Fruit:
That was all that I came across this year, but I also took the last week of the year off Facebook and Twitter, so your mileage may vary. I’m still working on my personal 2016 wrap-up video, that will be coming (hopefully) soon!
Alright, let’s see what we have today. I’m a (not so) closet transit nerd, and PAT released this awesome blog post about how each route got its number. I knew about the colors, but the numbers were always a bit confusing, but it’s really fascinating to read.
One of the Sabres’ goalies has a pride flag on his helmet (airbrushed, of course), and it’s a cool story that spawned from Pride Tape.
The queer community has a lot to fear over the next four (hopefully only two if we can win back the Senate) years. For those not sure why we’re so afraid, here are eight threats, and in true clickbait form: you won’t believe number 8. No really, yo won’t, it’s unconstitutional, the scariest, but a high priority of Republicans and the President-elect.
The NRA chants that the only thing that can stop a bad person with a gun is a good person with a gun. But what about good people with dildos? Better add that to the list.
This post was started before the election and finished after. NaNoWriMo (which was a success) tends to do that, but enjoy!
When Arrested Development meets the debates, it’s perfect:
Aside from one glaring reason why this wouldn’t work (you know the scene in Empire where Darth declares he’s Luke’s father), it’s a great way to watch the prequels
The Supreme Court is taking up a landmark transgender rights case (about using the bathroom, because that’s how basic we have to be, sadly), this will be interesting to watch!
And speaking of, Secret’s new ads have been killing it, and their latest is no exception. Check it out.
Quite frankly, it’s a really scary time right now, especially for any minority group, and I’m still processing and figuring out how I can help try to protect the rights I have. The podcast Throwing Shade, right after the election had a great quote, which I transcribed:
Anyone who is marginalized in this world, knows the feeling of having to push through and work hard to feel safe and heard, and it’s shitty that it has to keep happening but it does, and then I really do think it’s over. I think this is one of the last death rattles we have to deal with, literally the voice of the angry white man. I think it’s almost over. I think this might even be the last of it. And I don’t care what I think, I’m doing to do all I can to make it the last of it.
And I think SNL nailed it with their cold open. The last line was great, “I’m not giving up, and neither should you:”